I pictured what my ideal boyfriend will be and look like as far back as secondary school days. Can you tell what my ideal boyfriend would be and look like? very predictable…like most ladies, I wanted the prince charming perfect. You know…handsome( you guessed right),rich, smart, funny, dark, tall, good grooming and all that stuff…Fast forward to few days ago, I was discussing with a friend of mine and he pointed out how unrealistic we ladies are with our ‘list’ so to speak and how we miss out on great guys. From experience, I totally agree with him…
Once I had a picture of “him in my mind”, I found myself naturally looking out for these qualities in the guys I met. I settled for a handsome, well groomed, tall, dark, funny bobo with a bad attitude, guys that treated me like shit, manipulative, abusive, irresponsible, immature guys.???
Having realized that rejecting guys who don’t fit the exact picture is unhealthy. I have decided to trash the idea of an ideal boyfriend and start considering and getting to know the not so ideal ones(LOL).I’d hate to miss out on a great guy because of some myopic list. I will just focus more on qualities such as God fearing, good character, supportive, kind, caring, confident, open, sense of humour, respectful, moral integrity, faithful, honest …bearing in mind that Mr boyfriend might not have all of this qualities. Below is a list of my 6 non- negotiable qualities:
1. God fearing: (Not church goer ooo, or christian…christian y’all know what
am talking about.
3. Sense of humor
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